Stranger I met. Who has courage to look into my eyes, deep inside without hesitation. Surely he doesn't have beautiful eyes but true. Most True eyes i have ever come across. Our eyes stuck .His eyes has already got my attention. He was not “One of them”. He was different. He meant it! I don’t know which language he speaks but we are communicating. Our eyes are talking. They know it all. Yes i think i like his eyes.Yes i do ! I like his courage .Courage to see,courage to accept. His eyes are honest. I think i like him.. My mind has already started thinking about him. I don’t know where he comes from.I don’t know where he belong to. I don’t know what he does. I don’t know what he wants .I don’t know what he wants to say. But yes i know he is true and honest. Rest all does not matter. I made a promise to those eyes No matter what i m ready to see this world with and through these beautiful eyes, for my entire life or may be days or may be few moments. I made my moment just now.I lived it and i loved it. I don’t know what this relation means to the world. Neither do i have a name to give it but yes i want to be with them. Kiss on those beautiful meaningful eyes. Thanks

Y u did dis to me?????

U come to me and made friendship with me

U made me mad about you

U made me feel love for you

U starts fighting with me

U starts ignoring me when I had started loving you

U always made me pissed whenever I asked for my rights from you

U makes me waited for 2 years with the commitment of the marriage

When the time comes u took ur feet back and left me alone

U left me alone with uncountable memories of our love time

I had begged in front of you

I had also begged in front of your family

But you didn’t felt pity on me

I had lost myself infact I had found myself dead when u left me

There were so many questions which were unanswered still I ve nt found their answers

I cried a lot

I shouted a lot

I called u a lot but you didn’t came back

U ve not even turned back once to see whether I m alive or dead

After 2 years also I miss you I am waiting for knowing this that you will not come…..But I can’t stop myself to think abt you, I can’t stop myself to love you ,I can’t stop myself to stop waiting for you

This is the only reality which I am not in a state to accept …. N will never accept…. Please come back… Please come back…

Negative Thoughts !!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Investigation, Observation and history have proved that the Human nature is more inclined towards the Negative Thinking’s rather than the Positive Thinking’s. This is just because they get scared of the negatives faces or circumstances and starts thinking more about that also in most of the cases most of the peoples try to avoid or get away from the situations rather than finding out the solutions to it. The reasons behind it is all the peoples are so concerned about the society that they keep thinking about it and it leads to the negative thoughts but unfortunately they forget the fact that one of the most important way to beat the social anxiety is to conquer the negative thoughts.

Sometimes people cherish the negative thoughts.

When a negative thought comes, all have to feel that it is a thief. A negative thought comes in the form of Doubt, fear, jealousy, hypocrisy or meanness.

Very well said by someone:

“With Positive Power we build, with Negative Power we break”….

Childhood

No worries , Only Fun

Tiny expectations, Huge Desires

No Work pressure only learning

No plastic, only genuine

Most Innocent time in my life

Positioning- A battle of mind

In our general life we always want to carry ourselves to the core of defense. I had a conversation with one of my friend about a controversy happen in the town. In this controversy the main action which I had to take, where do I want to position myself? Do I want to be on this side? Or on that side? And last thought which I think of, do I want to appear outside the controversy and above it all?

It is a matter of being honest. If your feelings and emotions at a moment place you on one or other side of a controversy, then you need to show where you stand. Because you have indicated where you stand does not mean that you are going to battle it out. You can still explore the conversation both side in a genuine attempt to understand the other point of view. Indicating where you stand at a given point of time does not mean that you want to remain there. It simply indicates the starting point of for the discussion.

Most of time when I used to argue my friends tells me that I become arrogant about my point of view. I always think like that. This is where I stand right now. I am willing to help you to convince me to shift. If both side could. I have seen many conversations at our workplace where most of us agree with the point of view which is put by a senior person. They just were nodding their head and surrender.

There is very difficult question that everyone should really ask himself in a discussion: ‘Do I really want to have my mind changed on this matter?

Only an honest answer is needed to position you among crowd.

No one can force you into that position. It is your choice. You may agree with an idea up to a point. You may agree with an idea for a section of people.

WHY.....

Why our loved once left us?

Why we never forget them?

Why we miss them a lot?

Why we miss those days which we spend with them?

Why they never come back?

Why have we spoiled our life for a person who was gone?

Why we can’t live without them.....

Children’s Day

Universally, every year Children’s Day is celebrated on 20^th November. This day is celebrated as Children’s Day to celebrate childhood. This is special day for children. Everyone loves children. They are very innocent so they win over our hearts. They are the future of the country. Various Programs and events are organized in schools, colleges and orphanages. Sweets and toys are distributed to small children. This lets us enjoy and rekindle the inner child that dwells in each one of us. When I was young I used to get holiday on this day. It was fun for me as my parents gave me lots of toys, chocolate, gifts etc. I miss those days. I miss the innocence of my life.

Greed is Good

Last night i was watching Wallstreet and was thinking about the famous quote made by Mr. Michael Douglas in the movie.

"Greed, for lack of a better word, is good. Greed is right. Greed works. Greed clarifies, cuts through, and captures, the essence of the evolutionary spirit. Greed, in all of its forms; greed for life, for money, for love, knowledge, has marked the upward surge of mankind and greed, you mark my words, will not only save Teldar Paper, but that other malfunctioning corporation called the U.S.A"

We all have a greed inside us to learn more, to earn more.

Greed many a times is considered a source of evil which is the cause of sins. However, have we ever given a thought that greed can be good too.

Think about an Employee for whom greed can work as an incentive to work hard.

Greed to earn more can help an individual to start a business, or invest in a company. Greed can also help to work much harder towards your goals.

People feel that greed helps selfish reaons however it also helps people around us.

Take an example of all the entrepreneur. Arent they greedy. doesn any person wanna see their investments fetching them awesome returns. If enterpreneurs wouldn have been greedy to expand where would the new jobs generate from.

I feel Greed is good not just for your own life but for others as well. Even Mother Teresa was greedy — she had an greed to serve the poor.

When we see disasters happening around us we blame it on greed. However thats not true. The problem is not that we’re too greedy, it’s that we’re not greedy enough.

We should stop putting ourself last and sacrificing our own goals and dreams so that someone else achieves theirs.

Traffic Jam

It was a jam . Zillions of vehicles were standing still in the so called "lanes". Honking from every possible side.Too noisy .Struggling hard to hear what he was trying to say. I was struggling to take my car from this traffic. It was haywire . Nothing was going smooth.Probably it is a normal daily scene for most of us.It is really annoying. it increases travel time.All we could do to make it easy was to observe the traffic rules. Little discipline would have made everything little smooth or even could have avoided the situation for the jam.

And i realised it’s so related to our lives too. We cannot hear ourselves at times cos either it’s too noisy or at times we forget to. Jam in our lives too increases the time to reach your destination. And we loose the pace or interest. Little patience and discipline is all needed to make our journey peaceful and beautiful .

Caring………..

     

A mother cares for a child, a husband cares for his wife, a friends care for each other, a bother and sister care for each other……

Caring completes the relationship

Caring comes in every relation, when we are close to someone or when we are emotionally attached to someone this beautiful feeling of caring comes, may be to make that relationship very strong and also one more thing that we don’t want is that our loved once get into any trouble.

Some people believe that caring turns into restriction after some time, what do you say is this correct……

I think it is one of the sweetest essence in this world. many times when our loved one are far away from us or they are going away from us we say “TAKE CARE” to them, this is not only 8 letter word which we use just like that, when we say this word it means that person is very close to us and we want that where ever they go they live a happy life………

Need More Money

My pocket money is over!!(Nothing New) Money that I had taken from Mom is over long time back. Had borrowed some from siblings and cousins is also over. Friends are also broke. Life without money is so boring.. without money I cannot shop, no movie, no outings with friends, less Phone Calls, No junk food .list can go on and on.And it gets worser day by day as things are not done they get pending and get credited.

Why everything is been counted in money. Why our happiness is so much dependant on money.

All I can see now I will have to either work to get all these fulfilled or find a filthy rich boy who can buy me everything and anything.

I Still Love you !!!!!!!!!!!!

I Love you without any reason

I love you without any condition

I Love you without any expectation

I love you without your commitment

I Love you without your presence

But I love you most in this world, and what make me so sad is when I realize that I cannot get your love in this life time but then also I love you , so I love you without any hope !!!!!!!!!!!!!

It’s so pain to love you without having my future with you…

But yeah I will love you for my entire life left….

Frustration

Its irritating… I have lot of work to finish today and its irritating..

I am irritated not because of work load but because it is not happening.I usually like to work.I like to work for long hours too.But today... I know it is not getting done the way it should because I am irritated. I do not know why am i irritated but I am not able to concentrate on my work.It is also hampering on my work productivity. Its really annoying. My irritation level has gone to frustration level now...This kinda frustration has knocked my door after ages... I am very frustrated don’t even feel like talking to anyone for any reason… Leave me alone … I am not liking it !!

Dream

Dreams are just a wild fancy or hope; dreams behave like an aspiration or wish in all our lives. Dream can be the series of images, long thoughts, ideas, some unusual n usual type of sensation, emotions which generally occurs in our mind during certain stages of sleep. All of us dream of money, comforts, what exactly want to become, some bad dreams too etc etc but it’s not compulsory that all of these dreams comes true, though. But yeah there is always a hope and desire within us to fulfill those dreams it only requires hard work and to put our heart into it. Dreams are the result of subconscious thoughts and desires. We go to sleep every night and wake up every morning. But I’m sure we can all remember having some sort of dream. We can’t really explain what went on in our minds but we still search for some meaning. Sometimes these dreams bring good sensations, and sometimes bad ones. Dreams change as we get older, they are still important since it brings some sense into our lives, giving it some sort of purpose. Without these dreams our lives would be empty.

Accepting Self

Why is it so difficult for us to accept own self? We spend our entire life with ourselves. That’s what makes us what “WE” are. Easy to accept and love someone else but difficult to accept our own self. Why? Despite the fact “We Know” our selves the most (That’s what we believe).Do we really know ourselves? Or is it the reason why it is difficult to accept and love ourselves because “we know “? Do we really know ourselves? Or we think we know ourselves?

We expect others to love you; no matter u love yourself or you do not. Isn’t it contradictory that we do not / cannot accept ourselves whole heartedly and still wish others to accept us?

How many of us even want to accept ourselves and what are we doing for it? In the process of making someone else happy are we forgetting ourself?

Winter Season

One of my friend he is from India,he told me that India is a tropical country where most parts of the country experience two types of climate hot and cold. Geographically, however the country has 3 seasons depending on the climate, summer, monsoon and winter. Most people prefer monsoons over other climates as they love the rain. He also love the rains but the dirt, puddles, potholes that are invited by the monsoons irritates him and so he don’t love the monsoons. Summer season brings in a lot of heat and sweat, so he don’t prefer this weather. This leave him with the winter season and he do love the winter season the most. The main reason why he love the season is because it brings along with it festival season. Diwali, x-mas ,new year ,sankranti are the major festivals which fall during this seasons. Festivals bring a lot of holidays, so this time give us a chance to rejoin and have fun to the fullest. Moreover winter does not have any negative aspects like sweat or excess heat or dirt. This means he get to enjoy the season along with the festivals without difficulty. The part of the season is the cold and chilly weather we get to experience. This time around too hi is eagerly waiting for the season to start, so likewise every year, this year too he enjoy the festivals and the season to the fullest.

My lamp..

When I was kid I used love reading fairy tales, king and queens stories infarct I used to love all imaginary stories. Everyone must have at least read about Aladdin and his magic lamp. I hope everyone has seen that cartoon!

That time used to think why don’t I have that lamp? I used feel so jealous why only Aladdin has that lamp even I want that Jinni and yesterday I had a dream. It was just miracle. You know what in my dream at least I was able to own that lamp and Jinni was mine. I was so dam happy. I was full filling my all dreams. I was able to have all things which I just dreamt about it but very soon I realized that was just a dream you can achieve everything but by your work. You need to be very smart, intelligent and hardworking too to achieve your goal. It is true!!!

Choosing right plant for your Garden

                

Choosing right plant for our garden is not as easy as we thought because at the time of choosing right plant for garden we have to consider many factors such as……

Type of soil, environmental condition is suitable for that plant or not, how much water required & which water method suitable etc. Do not jump to conclusions before analyzing these factors.

For soil testing we need to consider of source of it and where you want to plant your tree .Soil testing will help you find out pH of that soil - acidic or basic, according to that plant can be choose.

Every homeowner has their own wishes, plans and dreams from their garden, so such factors also have to take into consideration. All other factors like fertilizers, disease control have to be given importance.

By considering all above factor we can choose right plants for our garden & create healthy environment near the home…

Trees are our best friend.Take good care of them.Love Them.

Yesterday’s Incident……………

Yesterday I was walking near my apartment it was around 6.30 in the evening. The weather was really amazing. I was just thinking about something and suddenly I saw two puppies came in front of me. The poor young puppies were searching for their mamma. Once their mamma came both of them became very happy. Both were jumping on her. I thought they wanted to hold their mamma, but she didn’t even bother about her children, she just went away from there.

Maybe she wanted them to learn on their own how to live a life but what do you think? In such a small age when they don’t know about anything, when they actually need their mamma,   is it a good time to leave them alone. This thought came in my mind.

May be a dog thinks like that only ………………..

And after that I felt that both puppies were very hungry. They were searching for food but nothing to eat. I ran towards my house, took a bowl of milk and put in front of them. When they saw the bowl, both came and drank. At the same time they were fighting for milk and I was right they were really hungry. I felt very good to make them happy.

 They both start playing and I saw them happy playing and running here and there……………

Five Things you should Know Before buying the Maine Lobster

1. Each and every lobster are unique

Test of lobster are basically depends on the quality of the water as well as coolness of the water. Cold water lobsters claws are large in size as compared to warmer water lobsters. Canada and New Zealand are the right place for high quality of lobsters. Water in the Canada is cooler and cleaner it helps the lobster to be testier when it is cooked.


2. Know about the shells of the lobsters.
Based upon their shells their test also changes. Lobster with the shedder shells, their meat is sweeter and their shells are easy to break, lobster with hard shell is difficult to break apart and their meat is more firm in eating.


3. Know the right season for buying the Maine lobster.
During the cooled time like starting of the every year from Jan-March Maine lobsters are more expensive. During these times temperature is cooler which makes it more difficult for people to catch the lobster. This is one of the factors which increase the price of Maine lobster. In winter time shells of the lobsters are harder than the summer time. In the summer time weather is more stable than the winter time it helps in the catching the lobsters more easily. In my opinion summer is the right time to include Maine lobster in our food.


4. Know the size of the lobsters.
As the age of the lobsters increases their size also increases. For two pounds of lobster age of the lobster can be more than five years. It also affects the test of the lobsters so it is better to order the small size of the lobsters whose age is not too old.


5. Know the hidden cost in buying the lobsters.

Always try to know whether you paying for shipping cost or the cost of the right quality of the lobsters. At the time of the disclosing the price they do not disclose the cost of the shipping in that case they can ship you lowest quality of lobster whose price is low .After all this explanation, it is your money you should think about it.

Pre Conceived Notion

We usually have pre conceived notion about anything and everything. So we tend to pre decide our reaction knowingly or unknowingly hence don't act or react the way it is supposed to be .I also feel this restricts us from learning new things and put a curb on enjoying present. This is also one reason why we desperately try to mould the situation the way we want to, rather than just accepting it and reacting. This looses our focus and we end up failing to give our cent percent though we know we can and we want to