Y u did dis to me?????

U come to me and made friendship with me

U made me mad about you

U made me feel love for you

U starts fighting with me

U starts ignoring me when I had started loving you

U always made me pissed whenever I asked for my rights from you

U makes me waited for 2 years with the commitment of the marriage

When the time comes u took ur feet back and left me alone

U left me alone with uncountable memories of our love time

I had begged in front of you

I had also begged in front of your family

But you didn’t felt pity on me

I had lost myself infact I had found myself dead when u left me

There were so many questions which were unanswered still I ve nt found their answers

I cried a lot

I shouted a lot

I called u a lot but you didn’t came back

U ve not even turned back once to see whether I m alive or dead

After 2 years also I miss you I am waiting for knowing this that you will not come…..But I can’t stop myself to think abt you, I can’t stop myself to love you ,I can’t stop myself to stop waiting for you

This is the only reality which I am not in a state to accept …. N will never accept…. Please come back… Please come back…

Negative Thoughts !!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Investigation, Observation and history have proved that the Human nature is more inclined towards the Negative Thinking’s rather than the Positive Thinking’s. This is just because they get scared of the negatives faces or circumstances and starts thinking more about that also in most of the cases most of the peoples try to avoid or get away from the situations rather than finding out the solutions to it. The reasons behind it is all the peoples are so concerned about the society that they keep thinking about it and it leads to the negative thoughts but unfortunately they forget the fact that one of the most important way to beat the social anxiety is to conquer the negative thoughts.

Sometimes people cherish the negative thoughts.

When a negative thought comes, all have to feel that it is a thief. A negative thought comes in the form of Doubt, fear, jealousy, hypocrisy or meanness.

Very well said by someone:

“With Positive Power we build, with Negative Power we break”….

Childhood

No worries , Only Fun

Tiny expectations, Huge Desires

No Work pressure only learning

No plastic, only genuine

Most Innocent time in my life

Positioning- A battle of mind

In our general life we always want to carry ourselves to the core of defense. I had a conversation with one of my friend about a controversy happen in the town. In this controversy the main action which I had to take, where do I want to position myself? Do I want to be on this side? Or on that side? And last thought which I think of, do I want to appear outside the controversy and above it all?

It is a matter of being honest. If your feelings and emotions at a moment place you on one or other side of a controversy, then you need to show where you stand. Because you have indicated where you stand does not mean that you are going to battle it out. You can still explore the conversation both side in a genuine attempt to understand the other point of view. Indicating where you stand at a given point of time does not mean that you want to remain there. It simply indicates the starting point of for the discussion.

Most of time when I used to argue my friends tells me that I become arrogant about my point of view. I always think like that. This is where I stand right now. I am willing to help you to convince me to shift. If both side could. I have seen many conversations at our workplace where most of us agree with the point of view which is put by a senior person. They just were nodding their head and surrender.

There is very difficult question that everyone should really ask himself in a discussion: ‘Do I really want to have my mind changed on this matter?

Only an honest answer is needed to position you among crowd.

No one can force you into that position. It is your choice. You may agree with an idea up to a point. You may agree with an idea for a section of people.

WHY.....

Why our loved once left us?

Why we never forget them?

Why we miss them a lot?

Why we miss those days which we spend with them?

Why they never come back?

Why have we spoiled our life for a person who was gone?

Why we can’t live without them.....

Children’s Day

Universally, every year Children’s Day is celebrated on 20^th November. This day is celebrated as Children’s Day to celebrate childhood. This is special day for children. Everyone loves children. They are very innocent so they win over our hearts. They are the future of the country. Various Programs and events are organized in schools, colleges and orphanages. Sweets and toys are distributed to small children. This lets us enjoy and rekindle the inner child that dwells in each one of us. When I was young I used to get holiday on this day. It was fun for me as my parents gave me lots of toys, chocolate, gifts etc. I miss those days. I miss the innocence of my life.

Greed is Good

Last night i was watching Wallstreet and was thinking about the famous quote made by Mr. Michael Douglas in the movie.

"Greed, for lack of a better word, is good. Greed is right. Greed works. Greed clarifies, cuts through, and captures, the essence of the evolutionary spirit. Greed, in all of its forms; greed for life, for money, for love, knowledge, has marked the upward surge of mankind and greed, you mark my words, will not only save Teldar Paper, but that other malfunctioning corporation called the U.S.A"

We all have a greed inside us to learn more, to earn more.

Greed many a times is considered a source of evil which is the cause of sins. However, have we ever given a thought that greed can be good too.

Think about an Employee for whom greed can work as an incentive to work hard.

Greed to earn more can help an individual to start a business, or invest in a company. Greed can also help to work much harder towards your goals.

People feel that greed helps selfish reaons however it also helps people around us.

Take an example of all the entrepreneur. Arent they greedy. doesn any person wanna see their investments fetching them awesome returns. If enterpreneurs wouldn have been greedy to expand where would the new jobs generate from.

I feel Greed is good not just for your own life but for others as well. Even Mother Teresa was greedy — she had an greed to serve the poor.

When we see disasters happening around us we blame it on greed. However thats not true. The problem is not that we’re too greedy, it’s that we’re not greedy enough.

We should stop putting ourself last and sacrificing our own goals and dreams so that someone else achieves theirs.

Traffic Jam

It was a jam . Zillions of vehicles were standing still in the so called "lanes". Honking from every possible side.Too noisy .Struggling hard to hear what he was trying to say. I was struggling to take my car from this traffic. It was haywire . Nothing was going smooth.Probably it is a normal daily scene for most of us.It is really annoying. it increases travel time.All we could do to make it easy was to observe the traffic rules. Little discipline would have made everything little smooth or even could have avoided the situation for the jam.

And i realised it’s so related to our lives too. We cannot hear ourselves at times cos either it’s too noisy or at times we forget to. Jam in our lives too increases the time to reach your destination. And we loose the pace or interest. Little patience and discipline is all needed to make our journey peaceful and beautiful .

Caring………..

     

A mother cares for a child, a husband cares for his wife, a friends care for each other, a bother and sister care for each other……

Caring completes the relationship

Caring comes in every relation, when we are close to someone or when we are emotionally attached to someone this beautiful feeling of caring comes, may be to make that relationship very strong and also one more thing that we don’t want is that our loved once get into any trouble.

Some people believe that caring turns into restriction after some time, what do you say is this correct……

I think it is one of the sweetest essence in this world. many times when our loved one are far away from us or they are going away from us we say “TAKE CARE” to them, this is not only 8 letter word which we use just like that, when we say this word it means that person is very close to us and we want that where ever they go they live a happy life………

Need More Money

My pocket money is over!!(Nothing New) Money that I had taken from Mom is over long time back. Had borrowed some from siblings and cousins is also over. Friends are also broke. Life without money is so boring.. without money I cannot shop, no movie, no outings with friends, less Phone Calls, No junk food .list can go on and on.And it gets worser day by day as things are not done they get pending and get credited.

Why everything is been counted in money. Why our happiness is so much dependant on money.

All I can see now I will have to either work to get all these fulfilled or find a filthy rich boy who can buy me everything and anything.

I Still Love you !!!!!!!!!!!!

I Love you without any reason

I love you without any condition

I Love you without any expectation

I love you without your commitment

I Love you without your presence

But I love you most in this world, and what make me so sad is when I realize that I cannot get your love in this life time but then also I love you , so I love you without any hope !!!!!!!!!!!!!

It’s so pain to love you without having my future with you…

But yeah I will love you for my entire life left….

Frustration

Its irritating… I have lot of work to finish today and its irritating..

I am irritated not because of work load but because it is not happening.I usually like to work.I like to work for long hours too.But today... I know it is not getting done the way it should because I am irritated. I do not know why am i irritated but I am not able to concentrate on my work.It is also hampering on my work productivity. Its really annoying. My irritation level has gone to frustration level now...This kinda frustration has knocked my door after ages... I am very frustrated don’t even feel like talking to anyone for any reason… Leave me alone … I am not liking it !!

Dream

Dreams are just a wild fancy or hope; dreams behave like an aspiration or wish in all our lives. Dream can be the series of images, long thoughts, ideas, some unusual n usual type of sensation, emotions which generally occurs in our mind during certain stages of sleep. All of us dream of money, comforts, what exactly want to become, some bad dreams too etc etc but it’s not compulsory that all of these dreams comes true, though. But yeah there is always a hope and desire within us to fulfill those dreams it only requires hard work and to put our heart into it. Dreams are the result of subconscious thoughts and desires. We go to sleep every night and wake up every morning. But I’m sure we can all remember having some sort of dream. We can’t really explain what went on in our minds but we still search for some meaning. Sometimes these dreams bring good sensations, and sometimes bad ones. Dreams change as we get older, they are still important since it brings some sense into our lives, giving it some sort of purpose. Without these dreams our lives would be empty.

Accepting Self

Why is it so difficult for us to accept own self? We spend our entire life with ourselves. That’s what makes us what “WE” are. Easy to accept and love someone else but difficult to accept our own self. Why? Despite the fact “We Know” our selves the most (That’s what we believe).Do we really know ourselves? Or is it the reason why it is difficult to accept and love ourselves because “we know “? Do we really know ourselves? Or we think we know ourselves?

We expect others to love you; no matter u love yourself or you do not. Isn’t it contradictory that we do not / cannot accept ourselves whole heartedly and still wish others to accept us?

How many of us even want to accept ourselves and what are we doing for it? In the process of making someone else happy are we forgetting ourself?