Pre Conceived Notion

We usually have pre conceived notion about anything and everything. So we tend to pre decide our reaction knowingly or unknowingly hence don't act or react the way it is supposed to be .I also feel this restricts us from learning new things and put a curb on enjoying present. This is also one reason why we desperately try to mould the situation the way we want to, rather than just accepting it and reacting. This looses our focus and we end up failing to give our cent percent though we know we can and we want to